Well said Scorp.
The buyer either got the money/product or he didn't. It is that simple... he is yet to receive either one. How is that NOT your problem/responsibility?
Your words....
"I am trying to be a good guy if you chose to be a idiot i wont send out anything, I mean I know its Sucks,"
A good guy??? You know it sucks??? Do you?? You are not the one who got SCREWED.
Do the right thing.